Ugly. Scary.
Emaciated. Just a few of the uncharitable adjectives tossed around via social
media since the Biggest Loser finale.
I admit, when
Rachel Frederickson stepped onto the stage in her shining silver dress, my jaw
dropped.
“Oh, no,” I said
to my husband. “She’s way too thin.”
I’d been pulling
for Rachel, a former competitive swimmer since she arrived at the Biggest Loser
Ranch weighing 260 pounds. One of three finalists, she stepped on the scale and
we viewers collectively held our breaths as the scale beeped and flashed
various numbers, building suspense before settling on Rachel’s winning weight.
At 105 pounds she’d lost nearly 60 percent of her body weight.
Credit: Biggest Loser via YouTube |
The firestorm
began. On Twitter and Facebook the insults flew. There was also concern for
Rachel’s health and wellbeing, which is appropriate. But vicious speculation
(one tweet suggested she’d been on the Hitler diet), name-calling (gross and
skeletal) and armchair diagnoses are not.
Is Rachel
anorexic? I don’t know, because I don’t know anything about her relationship
with food. Obviously she had disordered eating prior to appearing on the show,
otherwise she wouldn’t have weighed 260 pounds. The same addictive mechanism
that causes some of us to compulsively overeat can also cause some of us to
severely restrict what we eat and also to purge what we’ve eaten through
vomiting, laxatives and excessive exercise. Is Rachel participating in any of
these activities? I don’t know and neither to the thousands of cyber speculators.
Is Rachel in trouble?
Again, I don’t know. I think the show is in trouble. It’s been crickets
chirping for 24 hours now, not even an update or a picture celebrating the new
champ on Facebook and Twitter. That’s an extremely uncharacteristic silence
following the much-ballyhooed finale of a tremendously popular show. NBC needs to come out of hiding on this one.
In the meantime,
the cruel and negative body-shaming directed at Rachel needs to stop. If she does
have anorexia (an illness, not a character defect, by the way) then what she
needs is kindness, support and love.